Have you ever had advice that goes something like this;
- Do whatever we can to keep the pain out. Perhaps removing ourselves from all painful situations that come our way,
- Be more positive in our outlook then everything will be OK,
- Look for the silver lining in the problems we face,
- Knuckle down and throw ourselves into working harder, get on fixing the issue through applying more energy not emotion?
Q. What is the approach in these offers of help?
Q. How do you feel when given this type of advice?